As a software engineer, I deal with information daily. Working across systems of various sizes, I came to understand that absence carries its own signal — a group of servers that stops responding tells you just as much as those that crash loudly. I found this idea — that the absence of information is in itself information — growing on me.

What I was going through at the time, in my personal environment, at my workplace, and in relationships I lost or created, made me realize that this idea is also applicable to interpersonal relationships. The absence of communication with a loved one is information. The lack of interest in an activity is information. The lack of empathy in society is information. Even the lack of trees in the middle of a forest, you guessed it, is information.

This idea, without having read any philosophical book or studied a prominent philosopher, stuck in my mind for a long time. I was trying to express it in a brief but powerful way so that I could relay the message, the understanding of signals as information — or better yet — the lack thereof, but at the same time, leave the interpretation of the information open.